It really bothers me sometimes how critical women are of their men. I understand bitching to your girlfriends over lunch, we all know guys talk about the old ball and chain as well. That is just natural. But in my personal experience, women are so quick to judge another woman's man. There are two sides to every story people. I guarantee that even your best girlfriend isn't telling the entire story and presenting information without bias.
I can almost understand though... you're trying to be supportive of your friend. What I absolutely cannot understand and refuse to understand is why women are so critical of their own man. Yes there are douchebags out there who deserve but sometimes...I hear a woman going on and on about the pain and distress she's in because her boyfriend likes to play poker with his buddies on Tuesday nights. Or, her boyfriend just ran into a buddy from college and wants to have a drink and may be a little late coming over tonight. Or maybe he said the wrong thing, or got too caught up in his job this week, or forgot that you didnt like onions when bringing over take out. These things mean nothing in the grand scheme of things, no man is perfect. Why criticize, why punish them over small stuff? If something seriously bothers you, sit down and talk about it without accusations or harsh words. I literally cringe at some of the conversations I overhear. At Walmart the other day, this girl got so pissy and rude to her boyfriend because he couldn't help her pick out hair gel and said "you're never any help" in a demeaning, rude tone for all to hear. When she picked out her hair product and put it in the cart, she looked at him and YELLED "Obviously I'm done this means you can push the cart now." At least 7 people overheard that. Not necessary people. Because then you know what happens... a nice girl ends up with that poor guy 10 years down the road and he's so gun shy to relationships that they deadend before it even begins.
Just think people. Think before you speak. Hear your words before others do.This absolutely applies to guys as well but honestly, I see it more with women.
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